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For a person used to constant >100 degree weather, there is something magically surreal about the idea of a White Christmas.  Couple that to a childhood in the interminable flatlands of northern Mexico/southern Texas, mesquite trees, and ranches full of cacti, and the thought of a Winter Wonderland naturally becomes an impossibility achievable only through the magic of Hollywood.

And then the mom-and-dad-in-law decided to buy a house in Colorado, and my fabled White Winter Wonderland Christmas magically became real.

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We spent our 4 days there relaxing by the wood-burning stove, reading novels on the window seat overlooking the snowy Rockies, and going through Jeffrey’s mom’s long list of “Minute to Win It” games…

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We also made an extensive assortment of astronomically calorie-rich treats, including cupcakes, cake pops, pecan pie, puppy chow, sugar cookies, almond bark pretzels, etc., etc.

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And did you know that snow-shoeing the silent, peaceful, uninhabited Rocky Mountains is pretty much the coolest thing you could ever do in your life?  It’s just you, the snow-covered baby pine trees, a squirrel or two trying to keep warm, the sound of the wind, and the majestic mountainside.  (And your brother-in-law whacking you with snowballs.)

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We also all had matching PJ’s.  Yes.

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And because we don’t have kids, we get to be the kids.  And go on a sleigh ride!  OMG!

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The beauty of the whole thing was no joke.  And no, of course I didn’t make the sleigh stop in the middle of nowhere so I could jump out, mount the camera on the tripod, and set up The Perfect Shot.  No!  That would be ridiculous and irrational and embarrassing to all involved………

Also, I coulda’ chosen a smaller hat.

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So it turns out White Christmases in Winter Wonderlands exist!  Nice move, in-laws.  Nice move, indeed.

I hope your holidays were marvelous and that you were able to spend them with your loved ones.  Happy New Year to all, and thank you for continuing to read my ramblings and enjoy my photos!  You’ve made this blog one of my favorite things in the world!!!!!!!!

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As I spend this holiday away from mine and Jeffrey’s family—working back-to-back overnight shifts in the pediatric emergency room instead of stuffing my face with Nani’s pure de papas—I find that the best way to feel close to family is through photographs.  So I will take this opportunity to be thankful for priceless family moments by sharing my favorite pictures from my favorite thing that happened this year: that time when 14 of my aunts, uncles, and cousins (you know, about 1/5 of my family on my mom’s side) came to visit us in Boston!

I am thankful for…

little cousins!

help in the kitchen

picnics in the back yard

dance parties in the sunroom (they turned my star in to a disco-ball…)

sailing off to find whales

taking over public spaces. sorry, everybody else, the stairs are OURS.

silly soda breaks

and giant cupcakes

ice cream for dinner (energy fuel)

private tours because our group was bigger than anyone else’s

infinite photo-ops

PILGRIMS!

filling the entire center table at Mr. Bartley’s

serious conversations (in English, of course. my little cousins are very mindful.)

more ice cream

And last but not least, I am thankful for…

a family that travels in packs

¡GRACIAS!

Happy Thanksgiving, everybody!  And stay away from the emergency room!

List of things that are not emergencies:

  1. the sore throat you had last week
  2. the rash that sometimes itches that you noticed 3 weeks ago
  3. that cough that hasn’t cleared
  4. sleepiness after eating too much turkey

List of things that are emergencies:

  1. new-onset seizure
  2. your arm fell off
  3. baby turned blue
  4. asthma attack
  5. chest pain
  6. dehydration
  7. car crash
  8. full-body hives, swollen lips, and wheezing
  9. sudden testicular pain
  10. rectal temperature > 100.4 in a less-than-2-month-old
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Jeffrey’s family is from the US.  Mine is from Mexico.

He has 3 first cousins.  I have 45.

His parents have dinner at 5:30.  Mine at 9:30 (if they’re lucky).

His family plans trips a year in advance.  My parents tossed a coin once to decide between mountains and beach, and drove off for their vacation the next day.

When flying, his parents get to the airport several hours early, to be first in line and ensure seats together.  Mine wait to go through security only after “G****, PARTY OF FIVE, YOUR PLANE IS ABOUT TO TAKE OFF” is heard over the intercom.  (Then it happened again with their connecting flight.  True story.)

But both our families sit at the dinner table together.  We speak with our parents almost daily over the phone, and we can spend days upon days hanging out with our siblings.  We get surprise care packages in the mail from our moms, and sometimes even frozen homemade food.  We have 6 grandparents between the two of us, whom we cherish and enjoy margaritas with several times a year.  And whenever possible, we choose spending time with our families to pretty much anything else.

So when Jeffrey’s Papaw decided to turn 80 this year, the fam didn’t hesitate to celebrate together and go BIG with a week at a beach-house in Destin, Florida.

Day 1: the day everybody got roasted.

yours truly, and Jeffrey

in-laws being silly during our walk on the beach

deep-sea fishing with all the boys...

...and showing them up by catching a HUGE (but useless) shark-sucker (which we threw back in the water because they taste bad)... but it was HUGE! and lives on a SHARK!

66 white snappers and 1 mingo snapper = dinner

hilarious pelican begging for fish scraps

delicious lunch at "Dewey Destin's"

Jeffrey and I with bro-in-law and his "handsome new facial hair"

BEST FROZEN CUSTARD EVEEEEEEER!!!

enjoying seaside margaritas


mom making sure her boys boogie-board safely...

Papaw's birthday dinner: filet mignon, baked potatoes, salad, moscato d'asti, margaritas, cinnamon pound cake with ice cream, presents, picture session, card games, and puzzles :)

my favorite part about this photo? the spit on his chin. perfect!

brotherly love... healing each others battle wounds (aka: lack of sunblock use)

bye bye awesome house, and bye bye Destin!

So when it comes to the things that really matter, our families are actually pretty much identical.  And that is how we managed to fit right into each others lives and embrace both families as our very own… as if we both came from a place where dinner is served at 7:30 (a happy medium!).

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Two years ago today, Jeffrey and I vowed to forever be each other’s best friend.  Since then, we’ve enjoyed a honeymoon in Bora Bora, successfully couple’s-matched into residency programs, became doctors, moved to Boston, and started a home with our dog and cat (…with lots of other fun stuff in between).  There’s no one in the world I would’ve rather shared all that with.  Happy 2nd anniversary, Jeffrey, and may our adventures continue until we are old and gray and bald and toothless!  YEAAAH!

(Suuuuuuuure do looooooove you.)

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Where I come from (where Mexico borders Texas), there are two seasons: Summer, and Christmas.  The former consists of 10 months of dry temperatures of over 100° and lots of gray dead grass.  The latter consists of 70-100° temperatures and about 2 months of grass that’s actually alive.  Now that I live in New England, I’m being introduced to this strange season called “Fall,” where eventually the foliage will neither be gray nor green—weird!  To fit in, Jeffrey and I decided to embrace one of New England’s classic fall traditions: Apple Picking!

We had no idea what we were doing, so we paid attention to what all the 6-year-olds around us were doing… and copied them.  And we followed the “Apple picking that way” signs.

What I did know how to do was how to dress for the chilly 70° Christmas—I mean, fall weather: mustard yellow shirt, brown vest, and my conquistador boots from Italy.  Ok,  I had no idea what I was doing with my clothes either.

Apparently, step #1 to apple picking is finding a ladder and reclining it against a tree that has not already been selected by fellow apple-pickers, like so…

Then you climb up (preferably at a slower and more careful pace than the 6-year-olds around you are doing), and start picking!

First apple of the day!  It had a funny apple name we’d never heard of before—like Golden Supreme, or something.

There were big apples, little apples, red apples, green apples…

And pears!  This apple orchard had some random pear trees too!  We grabbed a few of those as well.

They were not nearly as cute-looking though, so we focused on the apples.  Jeffrey, annoyed as he was with all the picture-taking, was still a good husband and would polish the apples with his sleeve for me while I set up my shots.

SEE THE DIFFERENCE?  HOLY CRAP THAT’S RED!

By the way, we were the only apple-pickers carrying around a full-size camera tripod and taking pictures with a remote control…

“Act natural!”

“What, like I’m eating an apple? This is stupid.”

“EAT IT!”

—SNAP!—

It’s true.  He spends most of his time around me in an embarrassed state of existence.

Two hours later, our 10-pound bag was filled with 25 apples.  And we have no idea what to do with them.

We don’t even eat apples.

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The other day Jeffrey and I went on the best half date of my life… MANA CONCERT!!!  (If you’ve never heard of MANA, fear not.  I will introduce you to their greatest song of all time by end of tonight’s ramble.)

When I heard they’d be coming to Boston, I was determined to introduce Jeffrey to them and all their splendor from a GOOD SEAT.  Jeffrey, brilliant as he is, set an alarm on his iPhone for the exact time at which www.mana.com.mx had announced the start of ticket sales to the Boston concert, AND GOT US THIRD ROW FLOOR SEATS!!!!  I went off-the-wall bonkers when he texted me with the news, and crossed my fingers that a little thing called “our future intern schedule” would not interfere with our grand plans.

It only kind of interfered.  Remeber I called it our “half date?”  Well, that’s because halfway through, Jeffrey had to rush off in order to make it to his night shift at the hospital by 11 pm. But we enjoyed that first half like crazy!  (I think my jumping and screaming was embarrassing to him, actually.)  The best part was that it was seriously one huge Boston Mexicans reunion… And I LOVED seeing so many obnoxiously waving Mexican flags and hearing so much beautiful Spanish in New England.  (Mexicans are obnoxious.)

There is something so wonderful about seeing your ultimate favorite band at a sold-out concert in a city as cool as Boston when the first time you ever saw them, you paid 30 pesos (like $2.50) for your ticket, and were so small that your dad was able to mount you on his shoulders and walk you over to the stage.  CRAZY.

I enjoyed the second half of the concert all by myself, screaming my head off along with the girl from Ecuador sitting next to me.  Her husband was also a half-embarrassed white guy.  The best/worst part was that literally TEN MINUTES after Jeffrey left, Fher, Alex (the drummer and my ultimate idol), and Juan jumped off the stage and walked RIGHT BY ME.  I high-fived all of them (!!!) and clung on to Fher in an awkward “I have loved you since I was in 7th grade” sort of way until his mammoth of a bodyguard pushed me off.  It was awesome.

I then took the subway back home at midnight, and proceeded to not see Jeffrey for the next four days because he was working nights while I was working days.  I guess that’s how dates go during intern year of residency?

Speaking of residency, remember how frazzled I was my first day on the wards?  Well, yesterday I managed to discharge two patients, admit a patient, accept a transfer, and dictate a discharge summary in FIVE hours.  BOO-YAH!

And as promised, I bid you goodnight with MANA’s greatest song of all time: Vivir Sin Aire.  ¡Hasta la proxima!

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