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entrance to our secret garden

You may have noticed that I have been MIA for a month.  Heme-onc (the pediatric cancer ward) came back to haunt me, and take up all my time.  I’ve been getting through a large coffee every morning and a double-shot espresso every afternoon, and in the evenings I find myself juggling two options: sleeping a full 6 hours, or showering.  As one of my fellow residents tends to say: “It’s not very glamorous.”  I WOULD like to announce, however, that I finally hit the 2 week Sister Patty effect with heme-onc.  Remember how frustrated I was at the beginning of the year when it never came?  It came.  A few months late, but it came!  And now, as my second month of heme-onc comes to an unexpectedly quick close, I realize that so is my first year as a pediatric resident.  And I think I am ready to not be The Intern anymore.  I think.  In celebration of this realization, and of surviving the year I’ve been scared of ever since I decided to become a doctor, Wolfgang and I treated ourselves to a long quiet hike today (which I promptly documented with a few quick iPhone shots).  Did I ever tell you that our quaint little house is in front of a forest?  And that upon stepping outside our front door, you practically walk into a wooded hiking trail (a.k.a.: our secret garden)?  Maybe that’s how Jeffrey and I survived intern year…

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in the door from work, and out the door with Wolfgang for an impromptu hike (in my weekend work attire)

my ever-faithful hiking buddy, boy-scout neck-tie and all…

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“i love this i love this i love this i love this!!!!” -Wolfgang

discovering new flowers… what IS this?

stopping for a quick drink in this freshwater stream, and to take in its relaxing sound

Sorry this took soooooo looooong!  Shame on me!  I hope you all had a splendid weekend!

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By the age of 3, my mom had made sure that I knew the difference between Michelangelo’s David and Donatello’s (slightly less sexy) David.  By the age of 4, Da Vinci’s “Last Supper” was my favorite painting.  And by the age of 5, I knew that I would one day make it to Italy, and study Italian Renaissance art in the very cradle of the Renaissance movement.  And so I diligently continued to study art and art history, with my mom’s help and on my own, in preparation for my grand future trip.

My first year of college, on a random afternoon on my way to lunch, I accidentally stumbled upon the Study Abroad Fair at the Memorial Student Center of Texas A&M University.  And that’s where I met him: Paolo Barucchieri.  In a thick Italian accent, he was passionately speaking about Santa Chiara Study Center, his Italian art and architecture program in Castiglion Fiorentino, a small village tucked deep in the Tuscan hillside.  He had grown up in Florence, came from a family of art curators, and he himself would be our professore.  I was sold.  For the next 4 years, I worked hard, saved money, and put off medical school for a year to give myself the experience of my dreams.  And that I did, under Paolo’s invaluable instruction.  But little did I know that I would learn far more than just Italian Renaissance art history.

first day in Castiglion Fiorentino; Paolo points out the Tuscan countryside and the Etruscan architecture of the village

Our classes were on site, in museums and inside ancient Churches, and laced with amazing stories about Paolo’s life.  He had such a simple, matter-of-fact way of completely blowing our minds.  For example, as he walked us through Guiberti’s Gates of Paradise and into Florence’s great Baptistry, across from its famous Santa Maria dei Fiore cathedral, he would whip up an impromptu lecture on the scenes from the Last Judgement ornamenting the ceiling in intricate mosaic-work.  Then he would conclude with: “We are standing on the very spot where Dante Alliguieri was baptized.”  Moving on…

old Italian library; only Paolo was allowed to touch the medieval hand-painted hymnals and their ancient sheep-skin pages

He taught us that Byzantine art is primitive and elementary, and that frescoes were the TV of ancient times.  He taught us that Romanesque architecture was designed by instinct rather than by intellect, as evidenced by its disorganization and utter lack of uniformity.  Then came Gothic architecture with its pointed arches, disengaging the vertical from the horizontal in an attempt to connect the celestial to the earthly, God to the people—an attempt to unify “the physeecal and the metaphyseecal.”  His favorite line.  Everything he taught was taught in terms of what was standing before us, and its transcending, ethereal meaning.

Paolo helps me with my mixed-media painting during art class

He took us to Palazzo Davanzati, a typical well-to-do 14th century medieval townhouse (a.k.a.: palace), where he pointed out the pelting holes on the ceiling, designed for the specific purpose of “dropping missiles on unwanted visitors.”  This would transition him to  the “back relief” technique with which the ceilings and walls were ornamented, a mergence of painitng and sculpture developed by Donatello.  Then he would casually end with “I lived here for 6 years when I was a boy, because my parents tended to the palace’s art pieces.  My brothers and I used to play hide and seek along these halls…”  Amazing stories.

in Ravenna, or was it Orvieto?

But my favorite of his stories he told us in Venice, in the Basilica di San Marco.  When the Germans occupied Italy during World War II, the Italian art curators were commissioned with the task of protecting Italy’s art pieces.  These were taken down from churches, palaces, and museums and hidden in the personal homes of hundreds of art curating families around Italy.  Including Paolo’s.  “Every night as a little boy I would got to sleep with this little jewel hidden in boxes under my bed…” he said, as he led us behind the altar inside San Marco’s.  “One night, the Germans entered our house and woke us up, demanding to search our belongings.  They pulled out the boxes under our bed and found it!  But for some reason they didn’t take it.  We put it away in its boxes and continued to protect it until the war was over.”  He was speaking of the Pala d’Oro, a gigantic, solid gold, jewel-encrusted piece, universally recognized as the most exquisite example of Byzantine craftmanship in the world.  He looked at it with a smile and said: “Hello, old friend.”

Paolo teaches us about wine-making

In this way he showed us Michelagelo’s Sistine Chapel ceiling and Last Judgement, Boticelli’s “Birth of Venus,” and Da Vinci’s “Annunciation.”  He took us to the tombs of Michelangelo, Galileo, and Machiavelli.  Because of him I met Michelangelo’s three Pietas, and David.  Because of him, I was able to give my parents a grand tour of Italy, and help my mom live out her lifelong dream of laying eyes on the works of her idols for the first time in her life.  Because of him, I have cultivated knowledge and memories for a lifetime.

with Paolo and his wife Sharon on the last day of my study abroad program... few things make me cry!

Paolo passed away this week.  But while the physical is gone, the metaphysical will forever remain—through his teachings and through the lives he touched during his time here, and every time we share his stories.

From the bottom of my being, thank you, old friend.

In memory of the greatest maestro I’ve ever had.  We love you.

❶ keepin’ it real at work with ridiculously obnoxious clothing (jewelry compliments of the mom-in-law… does she know my taste or what?!) ❶

There are few treats as wonderful as a weekend off at home with Jeffrey.  We brainstormed about all the places we could go, and all the things we could do with our TWO DAYS off together, but in the end did a lot of just plain enjoying our home.  And that’s hard to beat. In honor of Easter and Jesus sneaking out of the tomb and being all “WHAZUP!  I’M ALIVE!” we even planted some wildflower seed today for what will hopefully become a colorful flowerbed this spring.  I also paced around the yard searching for and collecting Wolfgang’s poop in a plastic bag, which kinda gave me the warm fuzzy feeling of hunting for Easter eggs.  How was your weekend?

❷ our future flowerbed (i hope?) surrounding the sun room ❷


❸ enchiladas Poblanas at Casa Romero (because in case you weren’t aware, real Mexican food exists in Boston, in the basement of a dark corner building… and last night we found it… and i almost died right then and there from the excitement) ❸

❹ the most comfortable work/play shoes of all time (Crown Vintage at DSW) ❹

❺ Jeffrey with the giant birthday cookie cake i made him; yes, it was 1:45 am (super easy, AMAZING recipe here!) ❺

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Jeffrey’s family is from the US.  Mine is from Mexico.

He has 3 first cousins.  I have 45.

His parents have dinner at 5:30.  Mine at 9:30 (if they’re lucky).

His family plans trips a year in advance.  My parents tossed a coin once to decide between mountains and beach, and drove off for their vacation the next day.

When flying, his parents get to the airport several hours early, to be first in line and ensure seats together.  Mine wait to go through security only after “G****, PARTY OF FIVE, YOUR PLANE IS ABOUT TO TAKE OFF” is heard over the intercom.  (Then it happened again with their connecting flight.  True story.)

But both our families sit at the dinner table together.  We speak with our parents almost daily over the phone, and we can spend days upon days hanging out with our siblings.  We get surprise care packages in the mail from our moms, and sometimes even frozen homemade food.  We have 6 grandparents between the two of us, whom we cherish and enjoy margaritas with several times a year.  And whenever possible, we choose spending time with our families to pretty much anything else.

So when Jeffrey’s Papaw decided to turn 80 this year, the fam didn’t hesitate to celebrate together and go BIG with a week at a beach-house in Destin, Florida.

Day 1: the day everybody got roasted.

yours truly, and Jeffrey

in-laws being silly during our walk on the beach

deep-sea fishing with all the boys...

...and showing them up by catching a HUGE (but useless) shark-sucker (which we threw back in the water because they taste bad)... but it was HUGE! and lives on a SHARK!

66 white snappers and 1 mingo snapper = dinner

hilarious pelican begging for fish scraps

delicious lunch at "Dewey Destin's"

Jeffrey and I with bro-in-law and his "handsome new facial hair"

BEST FROZEN CUSTARD EVEEEEEEER!!!

enjoying seaside margaritas


mom making sure her boys boogie-board safely...

Papaw's birthday dinner: filet mignon, baked potatoes, salad, moscato d'asti, margaritas, cinnamon pound cake with ice cream, presents, picture session, card games, and puzzles :)

my favorite part about this photo? the spit on his chin. perfect!

brotherly love... healing each others battle wounds (aka: lack of sunblock use)

bye bye awesome house, and bye bye Destin!

So when it comes to the things that really matter, our families are actually pretty much identical.  And that is how we managed to fit right into each others lives and embrace both families as our very own… as if we both came from a place where dinner is served at 7:30 (a happy medium!).

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Two years ago today, Jeffrey and I vowed to forever be each other’s best friend.  Since then, we’ve enjoyed a honeymoon in Bora Bora, successfully couple’s-matched into residency programs, became doctors, moved to Boston, and started a home with our dog and cat (…with lots of other fun stuff in between).  There’s no one in the world I would’ve rather shared all that with.  Happy 2nd anniversary, Jeffrey, and may our adventures continue until we are old and gray and bald and toothless!  YEAAAH!

(Suuuuuuuure do looooooove you.)

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Just our bodies and the atmosphere. And the Alps.

          Rome, Cinque Terre, Venice, Munich, Vienna, Prague, Berlin, Amsterdam.

We had never flown before—just our bodies and the atmosphere.  Our bank accounts were nearly in the red.  But we had set aside just enough money to end with a bang.  We slept upright, sharing a small blanket with each other, and a tiny cart with someone who unscrupulously decided to take his shoes off and communally share the aroma of his feet.  But a cold, uncomfortable, and totally-worth-it overnight train ride later, my best friend and I found ourselves in the extreme sports capital of Europe: Interlaken, Switzerland.

          Fast-forward to our bank account suddenly being “in the red”…

They strapped the harnesses to our bodies.  I picked the brightest parachute.  We were given helmets, boots, and the instructions to run off the side of a cliff.  And we did.  And we flew over the Alps together.  Poor.

Read all of my picture stories HEREAlso, If you like what you’re reading, let me know!  Comments and “likes” make a blogger’s heart happy.  Remember to subscribe for email post notifications on the right-hand sidebar, and follow me @DoctorOnTheSide!  Happy leap day!

There is nothing like residency to make you appreciate a weekend off.  It happens so infrequently that when it does, you make big plans to celebrate it to the fullest.  And when it does, I make sure to document it so that, during stretches of time where I work 26 out 30 days of the month, I can go back and relive it through pictures!  Pictures of trips.  Pictures of family.  Pictures of me wearing real clothes instead of scrubs.  (::Sigh::  I miss my clothes.)  Through photography, even as I sit at the NICU desk, at 4 AM—tired and unfashionable-looking and up to my elbows in babies—with the click of a button I am transported back to a suddenly not-so-distant adventure.  And that, ladies and gentlemen, is why if you know me at all, you know you can find a camera  hanging from my neck pretty much everywhere except the hospital.

So this post will highlight 3 different things:

  1. The importance of honoring your life’s experiences with a few good snapshots…
  2. The beauty of New England…
  3. And the tragedy that it is to forget your camera tripod if you intend on both you AND your significant other to be in pictures together. (Random strangers are sure to offer their help.  They will snap away excitedly, as you cringe at the possibility that they may in fact run off with your camera.  When they are done completely disregarding the existence of your camera’s zoom button, they hand the camera back and ask, “is it ok?!”  You will quickly notice that they focused on the background, so the faces are underexposed.  The horizon is crooked, and they cut off the most important part of your outfit: the amazing belt you found in the clearance section of Anthropologie.  You will say, “It’s great!  Thank you so much!”  And most of the time, you will hit delete.)  DO NOT FORGET YOUR TRIPOD.  DO NOT FORGET YOUR TRIPOD!

As I go through these pics, I forget about my pager.  I forget that my last haircut was at least 9 months ago, that my circadian rhythm does not match that of normal people’s, and that it is a chilly 37 degrees outside.  Instead, even though we made this trip a while ago, I can feel the warmth of the sun, hear the sound of the water, and smell the butter on the lobsters…

Step #1 to a fabulous vacation: look faaaaabulous, darling.

Step #2: pack your husband ;)

Step #3: consider staying ONLY at pet-friedly bed-and-breakfasts.

Welcome to Kennebunkport, Maine.

We explored the fishing town on our bicycles!  We fell in love with its quirks…

…and we fell in love with its homes.

My dream home: cottagie farmhouse, with a field and horse stables, a forresty backyard, and a view of the ocean. How much do you suppose this goes for? And how many times would I need to win the lottery?

Walker's Point: the Bush family's summer gettaway house.

There were many privately owned art galleries.  We had fun stepping in and meeting the owners and artists.  But when it came to buying a piece, we went with a little old artist that painted out of his car.  Every day, from 10 AM to 4 PM, he paints outside, in front of the ocean.

Suuuuuuuuuuuuper cuuuuuuuuuute...

At dusk, we took Wolfgang to the beach for the first time, and let him run free!

Beware the beast of the night...

At the end of a long day of bike-riding, playing with Wolfgang, and exploring art galleries, we ate fresh seafood for dinner and walked the town at night.  We found several shops open, and even bought a small souvenir (find it in this post!).

Enchanted fairy garden outside our bed-and-breakfast

So yeah, take your camera out to play once in a while.  And DON’T FORGET YOUR TRIPOD!  Happy weekend!
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